News Bulletin: I’m FAT

[sgrdolphin]

Ok, so the skumbag ex-boyfriend really did it this time. We were trying to work things out because I am a loser and cannot stand the thought of being alone. Well the real story starts a few weeks ago when I was having a “fat” day. All you girls know what I am talking about; the day you just don’t “feel” sexy and you cannot fit into you skinny jeans even though you have not eaten a thing all day. Well made a comment about feeling fat and he responded with “Well I overlook that honey.” Oh I was not too happy about that one, but stupid I let it go. Then I started to notice that the little sweet things he normally did for me where dwindling. No more random “I love you” text messages, he didn’t end or phone conversations with “I love you” either. Well I was starting to get fed up. Then Valentines Day; and nothing, no flowers, no card, no “I love you.” That was it, I decided to end it. So on Friday I went over to the apartment and told him that I was fed and that it was over. He of course wanted to say his piece; I was going to listen until, he began with the “Well I overlook that honey” explanation. He said, “I love you, but I cannot lie, you are FAT.” That is when I grabbed my keys and left. So he may be a skumbag, but not a liar!

[Stigma]

ummmm thats pretty awful... but callin yerself fat doesnt make it any better.,..if u think u have a weight problem do something about it...then when yer thin and sexxy...go rub it in his face and let him know what he is missing out on...

[sgrdolphin]

Stigma, You are so nice. I guess I forgot to put the sarcasm in the post. I don't live in a fantasy world and therefore understand that I am not Barbie! However, I do not think that I am fat, I was trying to be funny because all I can do is laugh at the fact that he would even call me fat! As far #$!#$!#$! rubbing it in his face! He is not worth the time!

[Mizbubba]

Consider yourself better off without him. If he is so shallow as to not want to spend time with you because he thinks you're 'heavy'... then you are worth SOOOOOO much better.

I've never met you in person, but that doesn't matter. You have an extraordinarily caring heart, and are always willing to be there when others need you... in my book, that makes you PERFECT.

Screw him!!!

[danktat]

Not sure but that looks like an excuse to blame his own issues on you. He knew what you looked like when you two decided to "patch things up". Therefore, if nothing was said in the beginning he didn't just "overlook" it, it actually wasn't an issue. I think it is only an issue now so he doesn't look like the ___hole in this situation. If it is YOUR fault then he can somehow feel ok.

JMO


(Not to mention I was going to ask for a bathing suit shot anyway ....feel free to place it in the mugshot thread)

[froglegs]

Oh Cas he sounds like a true winner! lol! It takes a real man to say that! What an honest guy he is. :glare:
At least he has now shown you what a truely uncaring jerk he can be!
Most men know that one little statement can blow even the thinnest of girls minds wether they are fat or not most woman take offensive not because they ARE fat but it is hurtful true or not that your not seen as beautiful in every aspect in your loves eyes. There is a tactful way to be concerned about unhealthy weight gain and a fully spiteful mean way to get the point across.
Some men may even use it to quickly avoid or end relationships cause they know the outcome....one mad woman!! lol! Anyhow it just goes to show he has let go a perfectly wonderful woman with oodles of great things to offer a WAY more appreciative man who has the the intellect level you do and heart to care enough not to blow out his "u know what" about how you look cause it is just his opinion anyhow like you said and obviously not a very good one!
Asides there are lots of good guys out there who arent so braindead that they have to crap on the one girl who will probably ever truely love him so move on and be happy!

[razeraze]

Sorry to hear about that, sounds like road trip time. I'll bring the plastic, 4" duct tape and my 86 Cadillac with the automatic trunk, You bring the beer

[atomicgrrl]

It's ok... guys can be soo bitter when their girlfriends don't want anything more to do with them. Mine actually resorted to repeatedly calling me a "slut" and "whore" (keep in mind, he's been the only guy I've ever "been with" and during our relationship HE was the one that slept around!) and then the only thing he could come up with to make fun of me physically was to say... get this... I have a mustache. Yeah. That's right. Maybe I've just missed it this entire 18 almost 19 years and so has everyone else, or maybe he just has super eagle vision since technically everyone has hair on all of their body? The world may never know!


(Later on he admitted he made it up because he couldn't think of anything else. What a LOSER...)

[X-Factor]

Wow. Major tool points awarded.

[Mizbubba]

Originally Posted by razeraze

Sorry to hear about that, sounds like road trip time. I'll bring the plastic, 4" duct tape and my 86 Cadillac with the automatic trunk, You bring the beer

This genius' name isn't 'Earl" by chance, is it? HEHEHE